Found evidence he might be cheating...
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
As I was getting ready to leave for work this morning, I checked my boyfriend's coat pockets for some gum and found a condom too. My heart sank completely since I'm on the pill and we don't use condoms. I can only ask myself why does he have this with him?
Also, around Christmas he has a briefcase type thing he uses for work and noticed that he had some wrapped gifts inside. Being extremely curious as to what he may have gotten for "me", I tried to figure out what was inside. It felt like lingerie so I would wait for Christmas to see if I was right. Christmas came, but I never got those two gifts.
A few weeks later I checked his bag again, but this time I found opened lingerie and a bag full of condoms. There was one empty wrapper.
I feel like a complete idiot after 3 years with him. For a year I've felt that something is off with us, and this confirms it for me. I emailed him once I got to work about what I found in his coat, but not about what was in his bag. I want to see what excuse he has for it, if any at all. This is going to be extremely hard because I live with him (basically like we've been married). I don't know what to do. I'm devastated because I still love him.
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
tell him it's over
i would tell him everything and i wouldent go out with him anymore just me nice and tell him that its over.
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