Thinking about past
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hello, let me start off by saying im a bit jealuos, well everytime im with my boyfriend i cant help but think about his past girlfriends and if he thinks about them, i always imagine him with his exes and it drives me wild i dont know what to do please help i dont want to keep being tormented about the past.
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
He chose you
I know how you feel, I'm the same so don't think you're alone in feeling the way you do. It does drive you crazy but if you remind yourself that your partner chose you out of those other girls it can help. Also, as your relationships gets stronger over time it should seem less important.
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