15 year old boy 28 year old girl
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I am 15 yrs old and about 3 months ago i became friends with a 28 yr old girl shes the greatest friend i have ever had shes just awesome but theres a problem i have fallen in love with her and i told her that and she was great about it at first we started flirting and everything but the conversation always ended with "your only 15 we shouldnt be doing this" and what makes it worse is that shes married.She told me if i had been 10 years older things would have been different but she promised me she would never walk away and that we would always be friends but we could never be anything more because of my age and that hurt alot but i understand where shes coming from and i would rather be friends with her then not have her in my life at all and thats been great but the past 2 weeks shes been like ignoring me she signs off the computer as soon as i get on or puts her away message on and she wont answer my emails she never calls anymore she use to call me everyday just to say hi and i dont even know what i did cause she was fine with me liking her for the past 2 months and now everythings different and i dont know what to do should i try and confront her about it or should i just let her go and if she talks to me then ok if she doesnt then should i just leave her alone??
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
I reckon George is right, I think she told her husband and he has stopped her from getting in touch with you.
Im sorry this has happened to you but you cant do anything , if you love her as much as you say then you wouldnt want to get her in trouble.
Dont get in contact with her, the pain will ease away I promise.
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