Going down a level



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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
Ok listen, i been going out with this girl for like a year but we been close friends about 3 years now. I love her she loves me , there is no doubt about that. BUT she is telling me that she cant be there 100% of the time right now because of some drama she's going through. I said ok i understand that but then she says "I think we should go down a level" Look i am not the smartest guy in the world but did she just ask if i could love her less? should i be worried? just to let ya'll know i tried talkin to her about it and she just keeps saying im sorry. Help!! thanks




User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female

My advice is you might be getting a little too close for comfort, usually its sex related,you might be making her nervous hense her saying to "go down a level".
Are you doing something different now than you did when you first met her (taking things to the next level?), if so she might not be ready!
If i told someone to "go down a level" I reckon its because hes getting too close and Im not ready.

think about what you are doing, it might only be touchin her in a place shes not ready for you to touch or it could be something bigger than that.

good luck


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