My wife met someone online

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My wife and I have been married almost 5 years, and recently, I saw on her cell phone that she has been texting and getting picuters of this other guy. Some bad pictures and also of him saying he can't wait to experience her. She is going on a vacation for four days, to another state, and she is meeting this guy, so she would know someone there. She says I am making this out more than it really is, and this guy is just a "dork" and I need to stop being jealous. She says she loves me, and will not cheat on me. How can I get those images and words out of my mind. She has never cheated on my before, but I feel she might. How can I get pass the messages? Why do I try to find fault in her?

User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Talk to her

Of course she is saying he is a "Dork", she is not going to let you know that she is interested in him. Please sit down and talk to your wife. She is going away to meet him!

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