Thinking about past
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hello, let me start off by saying im a bit jealuos, well everytime im with my boyfriend i cant help but think about his past girlfriends and if he thinks about them, i always imagine him with his exes and it drives me wild i dont know what to do please help i dont want to keep being tormented about the past.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
past is past
i can honestly say i totally know how you feel , i am like that to i am my boyfriends longest relationship we've been dating for over a year and sometimes it just drives me crazy thinking about them and how they were together. even tho she wasn't that pretty but , it wouldn't matter if she was. you just have to think THE PAST IS THE PAST who cares you probably have liked or loved another guy before him to. the important thing is he is with you and obviously wants to be with you theres something about you that he must love. who cares about the past stick with your guys future. whats done is done you can't change it no way no how. HE'S WITH YOU NOT HER. -- hope you can get past this like have , good luck !
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