Does he like me or did ever like me? what should I do?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I want to ask for your advice.
There is this guy I'v known for 3 yeras now. Our parents know each other, we speak the same language [English is our second language]. And the fist year when I met him...It was very confusing for me because of the way he acted. We would always fight for one reason or the other. He was always loud and he made of me, other days he asked to copy my homework or for a dollar. somehow I gave into him each time, mostly because the way he looked at me when he asked for something.
Other days he helped me on the test, he spoke of Rome and Juliet once because on girl didn't understand the ending...And then stared at me.. But He was nice to me outside of school..
I though I hated him. Because he always tried to hurt my feelings. But things change the next year. I didin't have any courses with him only lunch and whenever i saw him I smiled automaticly I didn't know why... We didin't even speak he never said hello
This year in the beggining.. I've sent hm a note telling how I feel. I know it's a cowards way out. But I'm shy and he would've never talked to me anyway! unless our parents had a gettogether or something. The only thing he said [through my friend] "It's not going to work out" He didin't say if he liked me or not. And even though It's the neginning of the year now I can't stop thinking about him..
I really tried to get over him, I even went out with another guy. But we ended up breaking up...
I've been in love with him for 3 years now and I can't go through this anymore... I don't know what to do anymore..
And when I come in the same room as him he always exits or tries to hug another girl and whenever my friends tlk about me infront of him he exits the room too...
I really do love him. But next year is our final year...
I just don't know what to do now!
Can you please help me??
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Ok Let Me Tell U The Truth.. ASK HIM get over it.. omg.. i swear if i was in ur place i would of asked him the first day.. i had feelings for him.. i bet hes trin to make u jelouse.. not avoiding u or isnt attracted to u.. bcuz if he wasnt then he wont go through all that i jus think hes shy or sumtin ask him and see what he says.. if its a no.. then hes not rite for you but if he says yes then its ur luki day .. and btw all guys that realli REALLI like a gurl are mean around her because they dont no wat else to do
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