she is confusing me!, does she like me?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
well the problem is i really like this girl at my school but dont know if she likes me, me and my freind have been competing to win her over for the past year, i told her that i liked her about a year ago (while i was drunk) and have just been getting closer and closer to her, now we are freinds before everytime that she saw me in the halls she would tease me or something(knock my books out of my hand) but recently it seems like im the only one doing these types of things, she usually laughs but sometimes it is just awkward i just took her to a movie, we held hands for about half of the movie then by the end of the movie we were both very close to each other and at the last five minutes i decided to try kissing her, it ended up in her telling me not to think she didnt like me, but that she just didnt know who she liked, i text message her all the time with my phone and half of the time she doesnt return a message, and often in school we have awkward moments and about 2 months ago i went to a party and she was there, i had my arm around her and was cuddling with her for a long time and she never really objected to it she always sends me these like mixed messages and i can never tell if she wants to be around me or not, this weekend i am taking her out to a batting cage, anyone have any ideas or tips for my second date with her?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
My personal advice is to see how much she really likes you. She obviously cares for you, but who knows if she LIKES you? Next time you are in the same room at a party or something, try not to notice her and see if she approaches you. Don't do this for an extended time, just enough to make it look like you haven't really paid attention to who's there.
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