she is confusing me!, does she like me?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
well the problem is i really like this girl at my school but dont know if she likes me, me and my freind have been competing to win her over for the past year, i told her that i liked her about a year ago (while i was drunk) and have just been getting closer and closer to her, now we are freinds before everytime that she saw me in the halls she would tease me or something(knock my books out of my hand) but recently it seems like im the only one doing these types of things, she usually laughs but sometimes it is just awkward i just took her to a movie, we held hands for about half of the movie then by the end of the movie we were both very close to each other and at the last five minutes i decided to try kissing her, it ended up in her telling me not to think she didnt like me, but that she just didnt know who she liked, i text message her all the time with my phone and half of the time she doesnt return a message, and often in school we have awkward moments and about 2 months ago i went to a party and she was there, i had my arm around her and was cuddling with her for a long time and she never really objected to it she always sends me these like mixed messages and i can never tell if she wants to be around me or not, this weekend i am taking her out to a batting cage, anyone have any ideas or tips for my second date with her?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
I hear you there Im some what in the same boat I met this girl a few months ago and her boyfriend broke up because we had eachothers number and she told me i was cute and I took that as a compliment. Well When her bf broke up with her we went hiking well hiking became kissing on the couch in the lodge and she made me late by 2 hours for work and it was well for about a month and now she tells me she wants to be friends but there is more to it. Last week she came to work and before she left she said she misses my kisses, so I stop calling her and giving her her space and then yesterday she keeps talking about just being friends but when I was at her house we started to cuddle and then she said friends dont cuddle but she never pushed me away. My friends keep saying she is playing me. And I really adore her som much but I dont know much about her anyway. So my advice is take your time be open but not to much open or it can fall, make her a few music cd or by one more like a love cd you can dance to, enjoy what you guys have. Im trying to except that she wants to be friends but she is giving me mixed signals so watch for them.
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