idk what to do
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Theres this girl I love, and I've loved her as a friend like a sister but then she helped me get through some sh*t and I wanted to ask her but another friend of mine talked to her "for me" (whcih i didnt want to happen, but it did) and then the girl said that she loves me like i were her brother, but she couldnt picture us going out and if i ever asked her out, then shed say no and explain why. Now a few of my friends are telling me I should keep trying but idk what to do. As much as i like her, shes still my friend and I'd never want anything to change the way were close to each other.
Thanks in advance for the help...you guys always seem to give me the right advice
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
well, someone i considered an awesome friend and confidante asked me out and i said yes coz i really liked him too. then, two weeks later he broke up with me and it killed me inside, coz my feelings for him had grown so much. now things are so awkward and wierd between us, and i can't even talk to him properly anymore. just be sure it'll last before you ask her out, dont let this happen to her coz it sucks on a major scale!!!
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