I feel that he's afraid to tell me that he loves me...But I don't know why.
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Thanx again! Well I'm scared to tell him that I love him cause I'm afraid that he might not tell me back. But he knows very well that I do. He says that I'm rushing into things and to take it slow. But I don't think I'm. I can't help the way I feel. I know that he loves me. Cause I feel it. He shows me that he loves me. But he doesn't tell me. Recently, One of my friends asked him whether we 2 are in love, then he said its "pending and we are working towards it"...I feel that he's afraid to tell me that he loves me...But I don't know why. What do you think the reason is?
And god bless you!
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
Come on honey, I guess it is a good idea for you to tell him that you love him rather than to bottle in evry of your feelings towards him. Be frank and transparent as well honest with your own feelings. I do understand how you feel but it would be wise to speak things, I mean your inner felings honestly to him. Why are you so afraid to tell him that you love him? You won't lost anything if you tell him the truth of your feelings and at least he knows that you love him. Have courage to do so and I am sure you will feel at ease and relief once you voiced it out. Good luck and all the best!
Pray to God for it.
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