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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
all my mates have had sex and i know they have their not lieing. i feel left out i dont want to have sex until im ready though but its horrible when everyones talkin about it and ive got nothing to say.can you give me any advise
thanks laura xxx




User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female

Hold on to your virginity! Once you give away that special gift there's absolutely no way to get it back. Being part of the in crowd is no reason to give such a priceless gift. When people decide to start having sex I don't think we think of how many partners we will have had by the time were married or even by the time we're thirty. Sure we always say "it'll only be him because we love each other",...possible but not probable.

Hold fast to what you believe, and if you are that uncomfortable about not having anything to add to the conversation I guess you could read a couple of romance novels and adopt the stories as your own...or simply find an excuse to leave the premises (go to the bathroom, go study for a test or something ) when you feel the conversation is headed that way.



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