Losing your Virginity
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
i'm 19 years of age i've been with my boyfriend now for 2 months but it seems a lot longer than that. we've been on holiday together, he is my first boyfriend and i've been lucky first time in finding him. He is everything i'd ever wish for, and we love eachother loads.
he told me that sex doesn't bother him and he is willing to wait however long it takes for me to be ready as i am a virgin. I've been thinking about sex alot recently and i need your advice. i'm very small and through masterbastion inserting one finger hurts so i'm dreading the pain when my first time comes around.
how much will it hurt? will i bleed? and what if i am too small for him to enter me, that it causes me so much pain.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
wait for marriage
Sounds like a great guy. Waiting till your married will go a long way to creating trust between the 2 of you. Having sex before marriage can create problems later.
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