Should he have told me how he felt?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I sent a message on myspace to the guy that I like I said,''I really have to tell you something but I don't know how your going to take it.''so he says, what is it and I finally told him that I like him he never replies the message back and im kind of hurt right now! We talk when were at school he actually listens when I tell him things,but he's also popular,and I have a great amount of friends in school to.Im a big girl and im thinking he dosen't like me because of my size or because of his reputation and what people may think if we were together but now that he knows that I like him I can't show face around him no more because imma feel embarrass.So now imma have to start ducking and dodging him. Should he have told me how he felt? im very confused I don't know what to think or what to say, please help me out!!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I feel the same way you do right now. I told this boi that Ive liked for a long time how I felt on Friday through his myspace and Im waiting on his answer. But I dont think you should avoid him. Then he may think you dont really feel that way about him. Trust me Ive done that in the past and it doesnt help any. Just approach him when you see him in the halls and he may get the picture. NEVER run away from how you feel. You wont get anywhere. And remember to keep your head up and smile!!!!
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