My Ex is Seeing Someone Else
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
me and my X boyfriend went out in 5 , 6, and 7 grade now we are in 8th so last year when we were still going out he started ignoring me so i told him lets be friends i ment to talk like we did but he thought that i wanted to brake up so we both stoped saying hi or anything. this year the first day we came to school i told him lsn lets get back together but he didnt answer me he just walked away i remember that in my next class i started crying. after a week i found out that he is going out with someone eles my old friend from my other school i got so mad i stoped talking to her too
so i tried to move on find a new b/f so i started having a crush on a boy in my class and he did too so we went out but i still thouht about my ex a lot so one day i just couldnt stay with my new b/f and broke up with him but i just had to. so one day my ex adds me to his msn and we chated and i told him that i still loved him and all that and he said i dont love you any more i love my new g/f and 1 week later i told him that i dont love you anymore and he was like well too bad cuz i broke up with her his g/f he did go back to her..
see i dont know if he still likes me or not he does stare at me a lot and he did ask my best friend who do u think the best cuple are?
why would he ask her he doesnt even say hi to her
plzzz help me i need to get him back i love him so much everytime i see a cupple i with i had him and get mad cuz i never will....
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
hi i was in a relationship for 3 years ,where with have a doughter and after with broke out (like tree or for mount after)
she is with a new boyfriend and i fild very bad about it ,becouse i steel missing her alot.
but if you insist to get back in that relationship does`t work that way.
i think that the time is what is going to make the desition.i`m traing to pass this situation focusing in my doughter,my life and work hard to be fine.
i know that is very dificult to see the other person with someone else but if your ex is for you i will comeback to you.
i hope those words help someone.
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