I Want a Real Relationship

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I'm only 16 years old, and most of the past relations that i had with boys were just for temporary pleasure. Recently i have noticed that i want more. When i made my wants and intentions clear to the last boy he stopped talking to me. Does saying that you want a relationship scare boys away? Is having a realationship something that you just have to "feel" your way into or can you state your wants up front to avoid hurt feeling later on?

There is this guy that i like now, and i was wondering what your advice would be- i do like him, but i'm interested in a relationship only, should i just wait it out or make it clear? I'm tired of GAMES!

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Talk to him

well to me in your sitation do he like you .Try to talk to him one on one in alone area were no is all in your busy .tell him how you feel tell you tired of playing games you want him you want to gete to know him and if he is scrayed to have a relationship telling you uunderstand you are to maybe scrayed as well see what ya'll have in common just talk dont rush in to things take it slow by getting to know eachother be honsety and yourself around him give him the right impression that you are a good person to be in a relationship went .

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