Boyfriend agonizes over girlfriend's past
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend cannot get over my sexual past. He was a virign before me and I was not. We've been together for about 3 months and have grown to really care about eachother, but his constant thoughts about my past really cause problems sometimes. What are some things he can do to try and stop thinking about my past all the time? Thank you.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Think of your mother
Look, this is what most men are thinking when they get disturbed about a girlfriend's past. Its very VERY simple.
A guy dating a girl, knowing that she has a past is NOTHING. However, when he falls in love with her, that past of hers becomes HUGE. The reason is this:
The more a man falls in love with a woman, the more he tends to think of her as the future mother of his kids, his future wife. If u don't understand this, just imagine your own mother telling the EXACT same sexual experiences she had before she met your father...
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