Worried about the past
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
ok I dunno where to begin here as I never done anything like this before, but I feel like i have a guilty conciscience all the time I just split up with a guy who treated me like absolute dirt on n off for 2 yrs, Im 18 and have already slept with alot of people and too scared to hide it incase an old friend/enemy tells and feel like I cant tell them incase he gets put off n think im a slut. you see I really like this guy-but me n my ex split up a couple of months ago n I have some feeling for him still but all this with my past and loads of break ups has kinda got me worried that no guy will ever wanna be with me because of it. this has really knocked my self esteem after the way guys have basically just used me for a bit of fun the whole time n wanna know how not to get in that situation AGAIN its so hard. as you can probably tell im all over the place
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I think that was almost perfect advice and it should help her alot. I also think what he meant by maturity was STOP disrespecting your self! You need to talk for a long while before getting serious. I'm only 16 but trust me,I've beeen there and done that. You realy need to get to know the person before you doing anything you could possibly regret in the future.
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