Friends with benefits
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i meet this guy my Senior year of high school he was my borthers friend. and we became closer, months after months we graduated and now we go to the same college we have a night class together but befor that,we started talking to me everynight on the phone and we hung out and hooked up with each other many times so my feeling grew stronger for him we would do everthing a couple would do but we didnt tell anyone about us it was just between us what we did so we hide it very well this was going on for about 6months. then about a month ago he just stop calling and hanging out stop talking to each other i grew angry cause i didnt know that was going on and then we carpoll together and thats the only time we were together then i stared to act like a Bitch towards him becase i was mad at him for just stopping everything from calling hanging out kissing holding hand and he notice that i was mean towards him so he told me we need 2 talk and so we did talk and he was telling me that he did Like me a lot and cares for me and that it wouldnt work out between us because his my brother firend so we cleared a lot out witch made me feel a lot better butt, then he was like i have a girlfriend now witch crashed me and i hated her even when i didnt know her. but i acted like i didnt care i didnt want him 2 see that i was hurting on the inside. and know that we have a class together he becomes very flirty towards me he well somethimes hug me from behine and hold my waist or just stand way to close to me and that give me mix signals. i dnt know if his fustrated because he cant see his GF she leaves 1:30hr away and her dad hates him and she 3yrs youger then him and am 20 one yr older then him and everytime he talks about her i get Angry and Jealous i dnt even want to here it. but, we kept it as friends so a friend listens right...
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Stick with boyfriend
Okay I have a boifriend now we have been dating for one month and 2 days today. We have known eachother for a year and three months. Well I have known my bestfriend for the same amount of time. Before me and my boyfriend strated dating me qand my best friend we would do the samethings that you were doing well things started happing 1 month before me and my boyfriend got together he hardly calls we dont hangout as much and the hott stuff stopped. Now that i am with my boifriend he calls me more wants to always hangout. ans he wants the hott stuff to come back in motion. Well i'll keep getting mix sigs from him he told me he wants me to leave my boyfriend and come with him, and then tells me he wants to be friends. i don't know what is going on. But i know in my heart that i am going to stick with my boyfriend, and just stay friends without the hott stuff.
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