friends causing problems
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
recently i've started liking my good friend and ( as far as i can tell) she seems to like me too. i've started hanging out with her a lot more and nonverbally hinting that i want something more than just friendship.
the problem is that we have the same friends and they're picking up on this too. they've started talking about us as a couple and telling me to ask her out in front of her. whenever they do this she denies that we have anything going on and that we would go out.
however, im not sure that this is how she really feels since our friends are really putting us on the spot. it also makes me uneasy about asking her out because all the "mood-killers" could make asking her out very akward.
what would you suggest?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
not friend's business
DUDE,GET AHOLD OF YOUR SELF!!! if you know she really likes you as more than a friend than go out with her. its none of your friends buisness any way. the same thing happened with me and i told my friends it was none of thier buisness. and it work!!!
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