He's my Third Cousin - We're Dating
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
The night before last, I was at my boyfriend's house and he had to take a shower. So I waited in his room and was sitting on his bed with my legs crossed. When he came in the room, we was wearing some black baggy jeans and no shirt. After he found his shoes and a pair of socks, he came and sat beside me. When he did, we started kissing and had one hand in my hair and was using the other to hold me. Then we started to lay down on the bed while still kissing and he had his hands all over me (even in the wrong places). He also was kissing and nibbling on my neck and lifted up my shirt half way and run his hand up my shirt. He also kept on unbuckling my belt and undoing my button. But we didn't go all the way.
He's also my 3rd cousin by marriage on my moma's side of the family and we both call our dogs Booboo. What was he wanting to do and does he sound like the one for me? Thank you!
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
It's your choice
well,if hes only related by marriage,its not that bad.it just seems a little akward.well,he seems fine.only kind of perverted.if you feel uncomfortable with him touching you,you have 2 choices.
1.you can simply dump him
2.you could just tell him about your feelings.tell him you dont like to be touched.well,everything is your descision.i cant make you do anything.its your choice.
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