Keeping a Teenage Love Alive
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
im a 16 year old guy, and well, ive been up and down on your site, and found that most advices about keeping the love alive is mostly based on married couples. me and my g/f dont live together yet, but i would really love to get some advise on how to keep a relationship alive, cuz right now my love life is dropping, like a dead rose, when it is not watered! is there anything i can do to make her feel good about the relationship? My g/f is a perky girl, shes also picky. i cant get her anything big, because, shes too embarrased to carry around school.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
it's natural is pretty embarrased about carrying things around..specially those that obviously came from you.she may not feel at ease with the knowledge that most people talk about both of you.anyways,if you can't give her anything BIG that may turn her in an instant tomatoe.then,give her little somethings she won't be able to forget like..for example, give her tiny stuff toys(can be a key chain stuff toy), a miniature of anything, actually you have a huge preferrence..just remember to give her things that are cute and would remind her of you..it's that simple.plus..dont forget to whisper:i love you..every now and then..or write it on a note..be creative.show her that you value her a lot more thanshe could imagine.okay? now do it.
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