Fighting with my Boyfriend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
if i stay with my boyfriend after plenty of fights does that make me naive?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Talk it out
The moment you let yourself believe you are niave the moment your emotions are in rule of you,..look we live in a technological world with not just machines but emotions its normal to fight were human beings were all going to disagree at one point or another but there are some common grounds, like are you guys fighting about what is bothering you or are you fighting about something that really bothered you/or him a day ago week month year etc..sometimes fighting is not even about the fight but the insecurities that he or you may be feeling but never call yourself niave. Blaming yourself or anyone is never going to get you anywhere except make you feel less worth and no one should make you feel that NOT even yourself. Best advice find out what really is bothering him and or you and when your both in a good mood be honest but not blunt..say something like hey i didnt mean to fight i really dont like fighting and he'll probally be like me niether than you can bring up if there is anything bothering him that he'd like to talk about..good luck
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