This girl or the other
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
to make this simple there is a girl who i have liked for a while.She is very shy and has only had 1 boyfriend. Shes a major church chick very goodlooking and not wild at all. nothing to worry about. I met this other girl very reciently and she likes me. I was hanging out with her one night and we kinda hooked up. Shes not as good looking as the other girl but shes still pretty cute. My issue with her is she is a party person and everyone knows who she is so cheating is always in the back of my mind.even though I have talked about it with her and she says she wouldn't.One major thing though is that I dont even know if the church girl likes me where I know the party girl likes me. So I can continue trying to get the church girl to like me and forget about the party girl. Or I can play it safe and go out with the party girl but with the thought of cheating and the fact that I'd probably still have feelings for the church girl lingering in the back of my mind. WHAT SHOULD I DO? WHAT GIRL SHOULD I CHOOSE?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
You need sit the church girl down and ask her where does she see the friendship with the two of you going.
There is nothing better than having clarity. Once you can determine if she likes you or not take it from there.
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