i don't know how to say what i feel...
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i have this classmate who i really, really like.. well, i don't know if i only like her... maybe i'm infatuated... or inlove.. i don't know. all i know is i wanna be with her, i wanna talk to her all the time. i'm getting serious in my feelings for her and i think i need her to know. the problem is, i don't know how to say it since we're not that close in school and she's always with her friends. we only talk through our cellphones and just text and text and text. how can i tell her?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
text her first
funnily enough, i am in the situation of that girl right at this point in time. Although i'm unsure if he has the same feelings as you for her/me. if that makes sense.
Anyways I would probably want you to tell me as i'm shy/scared when it comes to this and since the scenario is so similar to mine i believe she probably doesnt like expressing any feelings in public. (which is why i dont hang out much with him during school + my friends are very shy and im too loyal to dump them and leave them since they dont make friends as easy as me.)
so yes its a good idea to talk to her about it on the phone, maybe text her first and tell her you must speak with her so you don't call her at a time when her attention isnt fully focused on you.
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