i lost my girlfriend because of my jealousy
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok. ive been dating this girl for 3 months. and i get jealous when i see other guys hanging around her. i kept quiet about and i didnt say anything. but my jealousy just kept getting worse. i finaly talked to her about it. and at first she understood. and she told me that she would not let any guys hit on her or anything. but then i just kept getting worse and then we started having arguments about it and just the other day we had a big argument and then she just finaly said "I cant do this anymore. its over" so i lost her because of my jealousy. i want her back so bad. we had a great relationship until i said anythimg about being jealous. maybe i just should have kept quiet about it. shes my first girlfriend and im new to dating but i really want her back. we have so much in comon that its not funny. and i just want her back more than anything. what do i do?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Try someone else
Don't look back! If you meant the world to her, like she did to you, she would not just stop letting guys hit on her, she would stop seeing any other guy, but you, because that's what real lovers do, they do anything to make each other happy. She should've told herself, you being so goddam jealous is because of how much you love her. Jealousy comes with love! I know this might sound to you a bit odd, whoever you are, please, I beg you, don't make the same mistake I did... because you truly deserve better, just open your eyes wide, next thing you know, your breath is taken away, by an amazingly gorgeous girl... who's ready to give up everything in her life for you!!
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