Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
Love can be put off, never abandoned. --Propertius Sextus

I'm Shy - How do I Ask her Out?

We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.

Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I like this girl that I hang around with, but I'm kind of shy. I've known her for three years and I know her likes and dislikes and she knows mine. I'm afraid I'll get rejected by her because she might just think of me as her friend only. so I don't know what to do in this situation.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Test her

No way! Don't let her go!
I am so much in love with my best friend right now. WE've known each other about 2 years and we know almost everything about each other. I'm glad that I told him I like him, and his reply was that he had always loved me more than a friend, he just didn't have the courage to tell me that. What you can do is to just try to see if she likes you first. Such as, you can tell her that some girl likes you and ask her if she thinks you should be with that girl. If she appears to be a little jealoused, then there you go! If she doesn't, then try another test for her. Such as, don't contact her for about a week or so, and see if she misses you more than a friend should. Or, try this, say that you are thinking about moving to another country for your career, and you actually have nothing to left behind, you wish that there is someone in this country to make you stay. Then ask her if she is that person.
So, basically, try all of these things first to see if she really likes you. If she doesn't appear to care about you more than a friend should, then you should let it go. But I really wish that you will be with the person you love eventually!

The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Asking Someone Out
All Questions & Answers by Category
Most Recent 20 Questions

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


Follow Me on Pinterest

Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!

RomanceClass on Facebook

Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues

| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

Irish Wedding