Does he have mutual feelings or is he Leading me on
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
So here's my sob story my best friend who had been living with me for months, we became really close to where we know what each other thinks and finish each others sentences... The thing about this we had also become physically invovled...But here's the thing I don't get when we went out together with people he acted like we were strangers then, when we go back home he was all over me...I have tons dons of stuff to be there, help him and show him I feel...And he knows I like him but he seems to always find some other girl to be with.. But lately he works on a crusieline and he's been very distance from me,and stop calling frequently and returning my e-mails and when he does call me he flirts with me and gets all sweet, so I don't know am I being played or this is his weird way about telling me he likes me!!??
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Cut bait and run, you are probably one of many women he has. Ever here of the saying "he has women in every port"?
As much as this is mentally damaging to you. You can get over that. But if your having unprotected with this guy sex this could be the beginning of the end. Sorry to be so blunt but you should always think of your physical health first with anyone your not sure about.
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