We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Alright.Question. Asked someone out to the movies. Yadayada yada.this girl hasnt had the best last couple of years thanks to a sleezy ex. right now i just want to her to feel comfortable around me but i dont want to come off as the passive friend cheering her up. BUT IM STILL NOT GONNA do anything too drastic. I like her and want to get to know her better but im not gonna stress out. So my question is: should this just be a fun thing for her or should i try to make the odd move and should i end the night with asking her out on an official date?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Make it fun
dont make any moves at all right now, just make it a fun thing getting to know eachother better! at the end of the date ask her on another one, since shes been hurt shes going to be analyzing everything you do and might even get scared of being hurt again. so dont rush anything, wait until you guys know eachother well and she trusts you alittle bit to make even the first move, just be patient :)
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