Im stuck! hard decisions..
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
well theres this girl(b) and shes deeply in love with me for sure i know for a real fact. I think shes OK. But her freinds been trying to hook me up with her and yeah..but i like one of her friends (a)that are trying to hook me up with that girl, but i told her (a) that i dont like her(a) anymore and yeah..so now she is more close to me as a good friend cuz i confessed to her. But..i really still like her and i want to be with her. and what should i do with girl (b)?? and how can i be with (a)? or what is the best thing to do? cuz i wouldnt mind being with (b) cuz i think shes OK. cuz their both good friends..
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Tell b that you think she really is an awesome person, and you really do want to be friends with her, but you dont feel anything more and you cant help your feelings. do it in the best way possible so you dont hurt her and so her and her friends (mainly a) see that you really are a good guy!
Tell a that you lied and explain why you lied, tell her that you like her. see what she says, dont push anything.
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