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It seems like I'm always the one doing the work to make plans and she never takes the initiative

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
There is this girl and I don't know if she likes me. We are friends but she sometimes blows me off. I'll call to see a movie and she'll say she'll call but never does. It seems like I'm always the one doing the work to make plans and she never takes the initiative. Is she blowing me off and sayin she doesn't like me. I always talk to her on AIM and she never says HEY first. But then again when we do hang out we will have gerat conversations and have alot of fun. She'll give me hugs in the hallway and say hi very emphatically. My friend was talkiing about me and she said "Ohh I know him." with a lot of excitement. I really don't get her. Please Help. Could she be playing hard to get?

User Submitted Advice from a 51-60 year old Female
Second fiddle

I've never heard of a relationship like this. She is playing second fiddle to you. There are plenty of girls who would appreciate your romance and consideration. If they act to stand offish in the beginning it will never change. I am 52 yrs old I know what Im talking about..Good luck find a good christian girl who loves you for who you are, The relationship will be more meaningful and it shouldn't be hard then for her to call you back or even show you attention for that matter,,,God bless..

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