Married but love someone else
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
HI I AM SM(26 Yr) SINCE 4 YEARS I LOVE ONE GIRL BUT I CAN`T SAY TO HER TAHT I LOVE YOU (DUE TO SOME UNAVODABLE CONDITIONS).WHEN I MERRY WITH ANOTHER GIRL ,AFTER TAHT SHE SAY ME -I LOVE YOU .
I AM NOT SATISFY WITH MY WIFE .NOW WE MY MIND ALWA`Y THINK OF HER .WHAT TO DO NOW .I CAN`T LIVE WITHOUT HER.
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Get back with ex?
You love your husband? Iím sure your husband loves you. Not having the other guy make you want him even more. It sounds that he is just playing with you from what he said to you. So forget about the other guy. I was in the same situation. I was married for many years a long time and left my husband what a big mistake that was. I reunited with an old boyfriend while I was married. He was having problems with his wife for a while. During this time we started having a long distance relation and I saw him two or three times. He ended up getting a divorce. When we met we had a great time and we thought it there was something between (more than friendship). Well I end up leaving my husband about a year later and started a courtship with my old boyfriend. About a year and six months later I realized why I didnít married my old boyfriend. This was only a comfort relationship between us and we thought it was more. I also realized that I still the have love and passion for my husband (ex-husband) which I thought I didnít. We also had some money issues between us, but I realize now that was not important. Yes, I wanted more and a change in my life, I got a change all right and now Iím trying to get back with my ex. What ever it takes make it work, as long he is not hitting or abusing you. I had lot of time to read about these things and found out with in a span of four years, about 96% of the time the husbands and wifeís gets back together and 3% are friends, but the 1% are not due to abuse. Remember, I was tried of my husband and now and I can get enough of him.
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