I'm Shy, how do I talk with her?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I'm kind of shy, and am not comfortable around girls. I was wondering what I could do to meet a girl or become more comfortable around girls. I also wanted to know what the best way to talk to a girl is. This brings me to my main question. There is this girl at school who i like a lot. How can I talk to her being as shy as i am?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Judging from the millions of shy boys I know, you're definitely not alone.
I'm a fifteen year old girl, and I also have times, such as most of the time at school, when I'm constantly worrying about what to say to people, and what they think of me.
Just sit near her in class sometimes, and say hi. If you get a positive response, then keep it up, and when you get to know her better, start asking her something about what movies she likes.
If you both like each other, and you want to go out with her, but you're too shy to ask her,start talking about a concert, band, or movies that you're interested in. She might take the hint, and ask you out herself.
Whatever you do, take things slowly.
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