i love him too much
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i HATE love. why do people go on about their perfect relationships? it's not worth it. it hurts so much.
i am new to this. i am 16. i belong to a small group of friends which consists of 2 boys, 2 girls, me and my sister. i went out with one boy for a while, but it sisn't work. i have often got a lot of attention from guys, all of which i apreciated, but it was unwanted. now, reall, i have falled heart-fist for the only boy who can never love me back. well, i met him on a group holiday trip, and he had not many oher friends, so i sort of 'nurtured' him- basically, we go way back. and recently he's had a lot of attention from girls, and his ego has gone way up. he has all good intentions, i know that, but i can't handle the jealousy. he said he's liked me since we met, 2 years ago, and recently, we found ourselves kissing. i have never experienced chemistry like it. and now, he keeps sending me mixed signals all the time, he flirts with everyone, but especially my sister, but then again, he is very attention seeking. i can see through the act, and have told him that, and he says that he loves me. but, i can't believe it, however truthful he is being.
basically, i have never felt this way over anyone before. it's destroying me. i can't give it up. i love him so much. i adore him. all the small things about him, once i've appreciated them, i cannot go on without him. and he is toying with my heart. i don't know what to do.
please help :'(
thank you so much for reading so far
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
Be best friends
I will just advice you to free your mind a little bit and go for a kool breeze!!! If someone that ones claim to love you is now going to the extent of flirting round, then it only brings you to caution.. You might love him, but can you stand his careless acts? How about your emotions, i think it's best you call it all up and be good friends, by so doing, your passions will be supressed and you can now wallow in the air for a refresh before giving in to another relationship. It worths the waiting and the pains but not the unfaithfulness. This is Taiwo from the Romance class who care about you!! Cheers
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