We're Engaged - We Fight Constantly
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 8 months now, I am pregnant and we are engaged to be married, except we fight constantly. I'm not sure that I really want to be with him but I feel sort of obligated to marrying him. It also feels like he doesn't really want to be around me a lot of times.
I dont know how to handle this and make it a happier relationship..what should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
You should sit down and speak with your fiance and find out how he feels. If you both don't want to get married, you shouldn't. You could work something out to take care of your child without tying the knot and being miserable. Marriage won't magically solve any of the problems you're having now.
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