Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Babies and sex

Im 16 now but I lost my virginity when I was 15.I mean me and the boy had been talking for a year and we were never in a relationship.But since he was my first I was bleeding when I had sex with him.And yes it did hurt.But I guess it was because I told him he wasn't my first.And he wanted to show me what he could do.Now that i'm having sex,I told my mom.And I told her it was just something I was ready for.He wanted a relationship at the time I didn't and now.I wish had of lost it with someone other than him.I mean NO one can tell you when your ready.Don't do it because all your friends are.I mean lie and tell them u did it.I kno I did when I was 14.They believed every word.Sex is not a fad or something you can get back.Like pregnancy is a fad.These girl 13 or 14 think its cute to have kids that young its not.I have no kids and dont plan on having any until im well established.Because my friend has one.And believe me its not joke.She cant go out like she wants to because she has to take care of the baby.So think about sex.Take a deep breath and think before you let it go.

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