Why would she be avoiding me?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I really like this girl and she is my friend. I wouldnt say best friends, but just friends. I would see her every once in a while and we would chit chat. I eventually told her one day that I liked her alot and that maybe we could be more than just friends lot. Now though it seems that she has started to avoid me completely. Now when I see her, she doesn't say hi anymore and she wont even talk or look at me anymore. I am really dissapointed because I really like this girl and now there is just complete avoidance. Why would she be doing this? What should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a unknown year old Male
I can tell you exactly what you have done wrong because I have done it a thousand times. I'm sorry to say this but telling a girl you like her is a big no-no. She knew you liked her by the way you were acting, but you ruined the romance by flat out saying it. Don't say it again and just act the way you did before you said you liked her and you might have another chance.
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