how do i play this?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Met this one girl in my first week of college this week. Im going to get to know her. Anyway last time i never had a shot with a girl cause she saw me as a friend. This time i HAVE to be a friend in the getting to know her stage but i dont want her to BRAND me as friend ONLY. So how do i play this so she sees me as a friend getting to know her but somebody she could possibly want to ask out?

Oh and one thing she used to be engaged. I think that that is done now. But anyway is there anything i dont see about her prior engagment that would bode badly for me? She is only one year older than me but i have a feeling there is something im not seeing about that aspect of her past that could give me trouble. Im showing her around this monday and then we'll hang out.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Where is it headed?

Being a girl, I tend to take all guys seriously,and I never let anyone pass me by. If she's like me, she really wants to see where this could be headed.

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