What does I'm speechless mean?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
Ok... So, almost a year ago I met this lovely girl... To be completely honest, I've never liked someone so much, right off the bat. However, nothing ever happened between us, because we were both involved in other relationships when we met... Now, we are both single.... She became single first, and would often say things to me like "dump your girl friend, so we can get together... she is so nasty to you" and "we should get married one day." Now that I'm single, I've been spending some time with her. Often, we end up going to her dorm and watching movies and just talking on her bed... The first time we did, she made me give her a back rub. After a while, I got nervous and left because I felt like it was too soon after my last relationship to be doing something like that. But, I quickly got over that. Every time we have hung out since, she makes me rub her back, cuddle/spoon with her... she really lets me touch her a lot... and moans a lot too when I do... There have been some awkward moments where we have almost kissed, but I'm to much of a wuss and I pull away or look away... or whatever... No girl has ever made me so nervous... So after doing a lot of cuddling and touching at her dorm tonight, we had another awkward moment... I was holding her waste and looking at her and she was looking at me... I felt like I should kiss her but I wussed out again! After leaving, I sent her a text message and told her that I really really like and I couldn't hold it in anymore... She said "I'm speechless. I will talk to you tomorrow about it." I am so confused about everything, including the answer she gave me about liking her... Any help?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Don't be a Wuss
You had better kiss this girl fast!
No girl wants a wuss! We want real men who know what they want and take what they want. And while you are wussing out all the time she is thinking that you don't like her. Please man up and do yourself a huge favor before you start to ruin every relationship you get into. Buy yourself the book "How to me a man in a woman's world" Buy it now and don't talk to this girl again until you have read it from cover to cover. I suggest you read fast (like in one day and night) because time has been ticking and the buzzer is about to ring. After that your time is up and she will move on to a real man.
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