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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I know that pornography is a big subject. My fiance was out of town and I stayed over at his place to watch his dogs. I was using his computer and there are several files full of porn and five or more porn sites saved on his favorites list. I haven't spoken to him about it yet but I'm so disgusted by it that I won't let him touch me.

Why do guys seem to need that kind of thing? I can't help but feel like now I have to live up to those nasty, surgury enhanced girls. It makes me feel so horrible. We have been having issues with my jealousy for a long time and I'm afraid that he'll be mad at me for saying anything because not only did I pry but I'm also always jealous and suspicious. I have no idea what to do but I'm hoping to get a few answers.

Thank you,

Lonely and Jealous

User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Get them to enjoy

I'm so sorry you're having this problem. Did you ever consider instead of making it an issue in your relationship to embrace it and SHARE his interest with him???

...GEEZ over and over I tell women this. I've done that in EVERY relationship I've ever had and my EX'S are still beggin' me to come back to them LOL

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