Husband lies about liking black women

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Original Visitor's Question from a 71+ year old Female
I recently found several dozen web sites on my husbands computer regarding naked black women. This upsets me because years ago when we were about to be kicked out of our house because I was the only one working and I could not pay the rent, he took my last 40 dollars and told a black stripper he would give her the money to show him it was "pink inside". He denys having any fantasies about black women, but their are dozens of porn sites.This really upsets me because I fear that I, a white woman, isnt really what he wants. Please help, why would he lie about that?

User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
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Can you move on to another relationship? If you can..i would say, at least try to. HE does like Black or Brown skin. As a white will always be competing with the darker group? It can be exausting!..Totally unnecessary
why didn t he look for a black/brown woman. Instead of making you feel insecure. Sorry, this is the truth. FYI..
There is a man out there that will love you for Who you are. It is just not the one you have chosen.

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