My boyfriend's love
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I met this guy on the internet and am beginning to fall in love with him. We swapped photographs and he put my snap on his website. I did the same. He used to suspect me a lot earlier, though I was quite loyal to him online and was and still am eager to take it offline.
However, when I told him that my mother does not approve of his putting my photo on his site, he got sensitive about it. He has stopped writing to me, stopped sending SMS messages, mails or even calling me.
He used to have a lot of enthusiasm for me initially and used to make long-distance calls. Now he does not. Does he love me?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Date in person
You never had a real relationship to begin with. On-line and phone contact will only create a fantasy. He can imagine how you are and you imagine how he is. IF you were to meet in person you may find yourself a bit shocked about how he is in real life. you say that you were loyal online? I bet more than anything he had a lot of online gf and he may even have a real life girlfriend. do yourself a big favor and start holding your dates in person rather than hiding behind a phone or online. This is the only way to really connect with someone.
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