me and my husband fight all the time over me being jealous
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Person
me and my husband fight all the time over me being jelouse over other women. i dont want him to look,talkor be friends with other women. we have been married almost 9 years. i love him and dont want to loose him. but he says he is tired of it. i want to change. i dont mean to be like this it just happens, i think just becouse he talks to a girl that he wants her.... i try talking to him about how i feel he gets mad and says thing that just hurts me more..... he says he aint happy no more.........please help
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
I go through the same thing with my husband. Now i have realized it is too late to repair past mistakes. And i hate to admit it. But now i just pretend Im never upset at anything and always pretend to be happy. It is the hardest thing i have ever done. And it hurts to keep it all in. I have started a journal to writ in everytime i get mad at something. This has become my outlet for my anger. I know maybe it is not good to hold it all in and not tell him. And strangely enough he has becom worried that I actually started to have an affair since i dont seem to be jealous anymore. Isn't that ironic?
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