i love a girl i don't know
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hi, thanks for reading this. i was wondering if you could help me talk to this girl. i know you are supposed to just say "hi, (her name)" and smile, but for this girl it is so hard! i like her so much because she is unlike any other girl i have ever seen. i have never felt this way about anybody! i can talk to other girls just fine, but it's just this one girl that i always choke in front of when she is near. i even get all the butterflies and lightheadedness.
i think she is a little interested, because sometimes i catch her glancing at me. but she is so shy because whenever i look at her she avoids me. i am trying so hard to hold the eye contact long enough for me to smile, but she never looks long enough. sometimes i feel like giving up, but everyday i am reminded of how cute she is.
i really don't want to mess this up. it's like i don't want to change her by talking to her because i see her as the most perfect girl. i don't want to have a negative impact on her, you know? this has been eating at me for a really long time. thank you so much for your help
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Stop creepy staring
This is a very typical situation that I see occur very often in the love community. I think that you are very interested in her, but there is a slight problem with that. You continuously stare at her as if you are kind of stalkerish now I think the reason that she glances at you is because you freak her out.Then again there could be a very slim atraction there. My advice to you would be stop staring at her and if she keeps glancing then you can go up and talk to her but until then-PLEASE STOP THE CREEPY STARING!!!
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