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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok..i really like this guy and i have for about 2 years. When i first realized how much i liked him i really messed things up by giving him a valentine which he suppoedly threw onto the ground without even knowing who it was from. This year, more people found out i liked him and they told him, he doesnt want to go out with me but i still really like him. Last year if someone told him i liked him he would haven said EWW!! but this year hes queit about it, when his friends kid around and say he likes me he doesnt care. He really fdoes mean the world to me. What do i do? He says he doesnt like anyone. He's so special to me! I dont know him too well but i feel like i do! People tell me to like someone lese but if i did the next person would behis BF!! i didnt know he was his BF until like 2 weeks ago so my life is sucking now. what do i do!?!??
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Just do it
FORGET ABOUT HIM..HES INTO LITTLE KIDS STATUS. YOU DESERVE SOMEONE THAT LIKES YOU BACK.TRUST ME NOW THAT IM 16 ALOT OF BOYS WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME AND STUFF BUT I REMEBER IN THE AGES OF 12 AND 13 THERE WAS THIS ONE BOY THAT REALLY LIKE DME BUT I HATED HIM AND LIKE SANOTHER BOY WICH USED TO DO THE SAME THING THIS ONE IS DOING TO YOU..I REGRET NEVER GIVING HIM A CHACE BECUASE NOW I SEE HES A SWEEATHEART AND HES JUST PERFECT.I NO THERES OTHER BOYS THAT HAVE TO LIKE YOU. TRY GIVING THEM A CHANCE AND GETTING TO KNOW THEM.
PS.IF I MISPELLED SOMETHING TIS BECAUSE I TYPE REALLY FAST.SORRY
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