My Girl Seems to be Cheating
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
My girl friend and i have been going out for a year and she acts diffrent now like she is trying to be someone shes not, she broke up withe me twice alredy because she said im controling when i tell her i dont want her talking to this guy she used to like and he is 4 years older than her. When we broke up she called him up to hang out but he said no. all he wonts is drugs and sex and i try to tell her that.
but resintly she has been acting funny like she has been doing something with some one because she seems more sex active. and i resintly found a note she and a friend were wrighting back and forth, she asked her friend in it if she thinks that guy likes her and her friend said im not shur and my gf said i hope he does. I told her i read the note and she riped it up then later she says that she was saying in the note that she hoped i still liked her but i cought her in a lie because i read it 3 times and the guys name was in it and thats who she was talking about.
what should i do? do you think she might be cheating on me?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Find someone better
Man I've been there. Trust me, it will be hard but break it off. She won't hesitate to cheat on you with this guy. Don't let it get to that. Find someone better.
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