Should I be jealous?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. One of his oldest friend that he always hangs out with is a girl. And because I'm busy with school I only see him on the weekends. But all the days that I'm not with him, he's with his female friend from dawn til dusk. I've found naked pictures of her on his phone. He told me that she took them for her boyfriend and she doesn't know that he had sent those pictures to his phone. And the reason why he sent them to his phone was to show all his friends those pictures of her. He deleted them from his phone and I got over it. Then I find them again in his phone. And once more he says he sent them to his phone again to show his friends and that I won't understand because it's a guy thing. And what bothers me even more is that he won't even have sex with me anymore, but he has naked pictures of his friend on his phone.
I feel completely unattractive to him and I'm jealous of his friend everytime I hear her voice in the background. I feel so stupid and so hurt. I don't know what to do. Please please help me.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
I agree with George, if he was naked pictures of her on his phone and he give you a dumb excuse like that it should of been over the first time.
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