loss of affection
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Alright here it is.. my sweetie and i have been together for 4 years last month. We still are both very much in love but i think we are kind of in a rut. We have lost that passion in our romance. We eat dinner together every night, we watch movies and have a once a week date and everything but as far as the romance it's well sort of missing. any ideas that might help us find that romance that we have been missing.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Switch it up
I think you two are bored.
So you eat dinner together EVERY night.
You go out once a week.
Where is the thrill that used to be there? Where is the suprise? It sounds like you two put yourself into a rut because you started doing the same things week after week. I think you would benefit from spending less time together. Go out with the girls, let him go out with the boys. Start getting your own lives back and the bordom will go away. Absence does make the heart grow fonder. So why don't you guys switch it up a bit. four years of that would make me bored too.
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