How do you get the guy?
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Original Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Female
Like other girls I have the same problem and Question..H"How do you get the guy?" But I have a few more things to add if I may. Correct me if im wrong But here's my story. OK so I have been going to middle school with this one guy and now im a freshman back in middle school i thought nothing of him i actually thought he was ugly and annoyuig and had no physical attraction to him what so ever but now its totally different well it was until we started talking.. it was about 4 or maybe even 5 months ago we talked how we started talking was he was talkin to one of my formr friends and told her he thought she was hott and all this tuff she IM's me and tells me all this and so i im him which and I tell him or u could say i guess i conront him about this and he then begins to say he thinks i am cute and he talks to me for weeks and then after a couple of weeks he tells me he has begun to like me and he wants to meet somewhere a couple days later i haer a cheerleader talkin about how he has been iming her and telling her he likes her and he has been doing this to alot of girls or so i hear. so then i confront him or he confronts me only when he gets caught and tells me he doesnt like me and it was all justa a joke. which really sorta pissed me off bc i was being gullible and falling for the whole thing argh! but ne who we stop talking zilch none nomore that it a couple of days ago since maybe 2 months i get the corage to im him again and we talk aghain and he begins to say the same thing as last time i say are you joking with me again and he says hes not and he relaly likes me this time my question is should i believe him what should i do???
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
It is commonly known that boys are teritorial creatures. They want every girl that they find attractive. No use in denying it guys. You know it's true. If you hear that this guy has been hitting on other girls, well it's probably true. If he really does like you then he wont mess with other girls. Tell him this. He should know you're not gonna put up with ant bull s@#t, that is, if you really think he's worth the breath.
good luck to ya lassie,
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