Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Okay.. I dont really know if it would hurt or not.. but i am a lil "iffy" on loseing mine.. this is only because of my situation.:
See. i love my ex, with all my heart
but he only likes me (not like like me yet)
he is like a man whore and could have a disease?
we have done it all cept have sex..
we went out a year ago and we broke up 1 month later and he went out with my best friend!!
we are talking and becoming friends with benifits.. but when we were dating.. i promised him hed take my virginity NO MATTER WHAT!
i dont wanna break this promise.. plus i really want it to be him! we have already been close enough.. we just needed a dang comdom.. but i mean the reason i am iffy bout it is cuz i am scared itll hurt and cuz i dont wanna be pregnant.. plus everyone would hate me and he could go to jail
cuz he is 18 almost 19 and im almost turning 14.. but i love him!
and he is my BEST FRIENDS! brother.. but so hot and sweet!
idk what to do? HELP ME PLEASE!!
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